The catfish diaries
Frankly speaking my dear, you were a willing prey. I believe you are intelligent, emotionally healthy and sound, that is why, I cannot help but wonder, why did you dive into such a trap when the signs from the very beginning were not only loud and clear, but were so crystal? He did not meet you at the airport during your appointed time, disappeared in your life for two months and so, when he made his presence felt once more, you believed him, hook, line and sinker with open arms, heart and legs? (Akala ko ba, babae ka na? Bakit ugaling bakla ka pa rin?) Honey, sorry to burst your fairy tale bubble but real romance, a dating app is the last place for you to find it. Majority of the people who are in this getting-to-know-you apps are either desperate, horny or perverted. It is one massive porky market place for the wham-bam kind of sexual congresses. Why you chose to act naïve, innocent and virginal with the whims and ways of men and believed that your prince will come via Tinder is truly one for the books, laughable and outright pitiful.
What is with drama of crying foul and behaving as the aggrieved and used one? Certainly, you already knew since the start, he stood you up at the airport, with not even a whiff of his deodorant for you to implant in your olfactory nerves as souvenir, he was lying to his teeth. And the fact that, according to your version of truth, you did the sexual whoopee, what is your motivation then for this expose? For others to come out in the open so that you will feel good na hindi ka nag-iisa sa katangahan?
Can we conclude that this was your act of revenge that eventually became an addiction, is sufficient ground for your cruelty and callousness? Honey, wherever you are right now, you need serious psychological help. Please seek counseling and guidance from a professional. And whoever is your God, His or Her forgiveness, please request for it pronto. Mend your twisted and wicked ways. Sam, Jzan and Billy are all at fault here. Love or romance, or someone else’s feelings is not a toy or game anyone should play with not only because it is bad, but because it is fundamentally wrong. And to all the hopeless romantics, who are reading Arias today, there is indeed wisdom, in this song from the Supremes, “You can’t hurry love. You just have to wait. No, love don’t come easy, it’s a game of give and take.”
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