After more than a decade of being together—five years as husband and wife, and eleven as partners—musicians TJ Monterde and KZ Tandingan say their biggest dreams today are no longer about the charts or spotlight but they are now focusing on each other’s growth as individuals, as artists, and as a couple.
At the recent press conference for their upcoming Never Bean Sweeter fan meet presented by Dunkin’ Philippines, the couple opened up about how their priorities have shifted.
“My dream for TJ is that he reaches everything he still wants to reach, not just as a singer-songwriter, but as an artist, and as a person. I know he has so many dreams for himself, for his family, and for both of us. I hope he reaches them all. And whatever he chooses to do toward those goals, I’ll always be right behind him,” KZ told Manila Standard Entertainment.
“It’s the same for me. I want her to experience everything she wants in life. And whatever I can do to help make those things happen, I’ll do it. I’ll always be here for her,” TJ said.
The two also shared how their relationship, tested by the demands of their careers and time apart, has grown more intentional over the years. With international tours behind them and songs like “Palagi” becoming part of fans’ most intimate milestones, they were asked what still fuels their journey.
“We’ve learned to be really mindful about making time for each other. You can schedule date nights every week, but if you’re not present in those moments, they don’t mean much. So now, we’re more thoughtful, even with the little things,” KZ explained.
Their bond, they said, is built on shared values and balance. While KZ tends to overthink, TJ grounds her with his easy going calm.
“He reminds me to enjoy the moment. And I remind him when it’s time to rehearse,” she said.
“We always say: it’s never me versus you. It’s always you and me against the problem,” TJ added.
Asked what they wish for today, the couple’s answers were simple but grounded in love: to continue supporting each other’s paths while staying rooted in what matters.
“We always remind each other to take things one day at a time. Whatever happens, we’re in this together,” KZ added.
Never Bean Sweeter fan meet is happening on May 25 at the SM Mall of Asia Arena.